Affect vs Effect

(Before I start this post I have to say thank you to all the congratulation messages I've received after my last post.  Thanks for them all!  I realized on Friday that I did not have to spend my lunch hour doing school work and that I did not have to plan my weekend around doing school work; it was a strange but pleasant feeling!)

I've always struggled with when to use the word "affect" and when to use  "effect".  I would always have to look them up and even then would often be unsure if I was really using the correct word.  The dictionary always explained that one was a noun and the other verb.  While I understand the difference between a noun (person, place or thing) and a verb (action) I was still confused. 

While finishing up my last presentation for school I had the affect/effect dilemma and, as usual, wasn't sure which one was correct.  This time I searched on the internet for help and I found an answer that triggered an easy way for me to remember.  So easy that I wondered why this never clicked with me before, but then again we sometimes miss those easy things when we try to make it hard!

Here is the explanation:

Affect is the verb and it means to cause a change (also, to influence or to pretend).
Effect is the noun and it shows the result of something that happened.

Here is how to remember which one is correct:

Affect = cause

Effect = result

And that concludes this little grammar lesson!

I'm too numb to celebrate

I should be celebrating, but I'm just too numb.  For weeks I've been anticipating this night, and all day long I've been thinking, "this is it, tonight is it".  So, why am I numb?  I think the answer to that is because it has taken me 40 years to get to this night.  You see, 40 years ago this spring I graduated from high school and tonight I completed my undergraduate degree (yes, now you know my age, but that's okay).  I didn't do this the right way, but I know that this was the way God intended it to be for me.

I started out on the right track after graduation.  Two years at a junior college and one year at a major university, and then life got in the way.  I always wanted to go back to school, but it just wasn't meant to be.  And, then I found out about Concordia University's local campus that offered an Accelerated Degree Program one night a week.  Even then I think it took a year or two before I finally finished the application.  Three and half years ago, on a very cold February night I sat down in a classroom and started back to school. 

It has not been easy, but I stuck with it.  It was hard to work all day and then go to school until 10 p.m. knowing that after I got home and would get to bed that my alarm would be ringing all too soon to start me on another day.  It was hard to come home at night and spend my entire evening on homework.  It was hard to give up my weekends.  It was hard to abandon my sewing room, my books, and my yard.  It was hard and it took discipline.

College was different the second time around.  No lecture halls with lectures and final exams.  Now it was small classes and, in most cases, interactive learning.  I learned that I learned a lot from doing a final paper and presentation, much more than I would have if I had crammed for a final exam.  I learned a lot from classmates, too, in the discussions that we had in most classes.  There was no smoking in the hallways (thank heaven, I hated that), but we didn't have a cafeteria or coffee shop to congregate in either.  And, sadly, the bookstore was in Austin and they delivered our books to us, so no trips to the bookstore this time around (I loved the bookstores with books, supplies, t-shirts, big spiral notebooks, etc.).  The internet has changed college, too.  I had two online classes (very interesting and enjoyable to interact with students all over the US) and in most classes I submitted work online and/or took quizzes online. It was different, but not all bad either.  It worked for me anyway.

Tonight as I drove home I had a flood of emotions.  A little joy, a few tears, and a thankful heart.  Thankful for my dear Daddy who left me enough money to go to a small private university; how he valued education and I appreciate the fact that while he struggled to put himself through Ole Miss he put all of us through school, too. Thankful for family, friends, and school staff who supported me.  Thankful that God helped me through it and sent the little voice to remind me to "stay the course" whenever I got overwhelmed.

Tonight, on a very hot August night I walked out of school and knew that I did it, I did it.  I made it through and it only took me 40 years!

Wednesday, 08.20.2014

Along the Paseo del Alamo
San Antonio Texas

Three lessons I learned today

I learned three things today, three little lessons in life.

 

Lesson 1

Homemade ice cream will NOT freeze without rock salt, no matter how much ice you use and how long you let it turn. 

Lesson 2

Never assume that you have what you need for a project.  Do not assume that the rock salt is in the garage; you must take the time to go look in the garage to make sure that you have everything that you will need to complete the project.

Lesson 3

You must keep your house and garage organized if you are ever to find anything that you think you have.  You can not expect to be able to easily find the rock salt if you are so unorganized that nothing is where it should be.

What's missing?

Yesterday

Today

Sadly, with much regret the time had come for the leaning Monterrey Oak tree to come down.  It was a large tree, much larger than the two Live Oak trees it stood between; however, it was leaning more and more.  Plus it was choking out the Live Oaks and they were choking it, so the net was that none of the trees could grow properly.  It was time.

This morning before work I decided that it might be a good idea to do one more "poop patrol" of the yard, just in case.  As I walked by the tree (do not laugh here) I had to reach over and touch its trunk and silently I apologized for the fate it would meet today and thanked it for the shade it had provided to the yard and the harbor it provided to the squirrels and birds that inhabited it for all these many years.  Silly, I know.  But still, I felt bad about destroying such a big tree.

Now my yard is filled with light and I'm amazed at how open it feels. It is almost like having a whole new back yard.  I suspect that now I can re-sod the yard and have a grassy back yard.  And, I have a feeling that the plants that I do have will begin to thrive.  In time the remaining trees will begin to grow together, but for now I have light. 

Wednesday, 08.13.2014

picture taken at
Trapp Family Lodge
Stowe, Vermont

Tut, tut looks like rain

 

This is exactly what you want to see on an August afternoon in South Texas!

There's nothing like fresh herbs!

Fresh oregano and basil

Several Saturdays ago (yes, I'm a little behind here) my neighbor rang my doorbell and said that he was trimming their herbs and asked if I would like any.  My response was what do you have?  He had oregano and I didn't have any growing, so over to his yard I went.  He also had some nice basil, nicer than my scrawny little plant, so I picked up some of that, too.

I had just returned from an early morning trip to the Farmer's Market and had a sink of vegetables to wash, so the thought of fresh herbs to complete my food stash was very satisfying.  But the best part was to come.  I put the fresh herbs in this little plastic container with a little water and covered them with a wet paper towel.  I left them sitting on the kitchen counter while I did other things. The aroma that filled my kitchen was unbelievably wonderful!  The fragrance of the oregano and basil combination was very pleasing.

Reluctantly, I finally stashed them in the refrigerator.  But not before I wrapped several of the basil leaves around grape tomatoes that I had bought that morning and enjoyed them with my lunch!

Wednesday, 08.06.2014

Lenticular truss bridge
Brackenridge Park
manufactured by the Berlin Iron Bridge Company
East Berlin, Connecticut

Saying Goodbye

Saying goodbye is never easy.  This week I had to say goodbye to one of my dear companions.

Baxter
2004-2014

Last Saturday morning I thought it was odd when I realized that Baster had not slept with me the night before.  He was a cuddler, snuggler and always slept close to me.  He was puny on Saturday, but I honestly thought it was just one of those cat things that I've experienced with them where they lay around for a day or two and then get up and decide that they are fine and resume their normal lives.  By Monday morning he was very weak, so I loaded him in the carrier and dropped him off at my vet's office.  The diagnosis was that his kidney's weren't working and his body temperature was extremely low. I went by after work on Tuesday to see him;  while I talked to him and scratched his ears I could see his lips silently moving in a "mew".  I left, dreading the decision that I thought I would have to make on Wednesday.

I came home, teary eyed and just prayed for him.  Silly as it sounds, I prayed for Baxter that he would slip quietly from this life during the night.  Maybe I was selfish because I didn't want to have to say the words to put him down and then hold him in his final minutes of life.  I just couldn't face doing that to my big kitty-boy that I had loved so much.  God was good.  As I was calling the vet at 7:10 Wednesday morning he was calling me.  Baxter was slipping away and had only minutes to live.  Baxter went quietly, although not with me and I was spared the gut wrenching decision.  I am thankful.

Baxter (on left) and Mitzie

Bax and his litter mate, Mitzie, had come to me as tiny kittens.  Their feral cat mother had ended up in the backyard of friends from church that live not too far from me.  We still laugh about how surprised everyone was, myself included, when I went over to look at the kittens and said, "I'll take the two little creams" (I already had two cats at the time).  They were totally wild and it took some work to calm them down and tame them, but it was worth it.  I've had 10 wonderful years of companionship with them. 

Baxter spent most of his time sleeping on my bed, day and night.  Sweet Dreams, Big boy!

Wednesday, 07.30.2014

A Different Sunday Morning

I'm not sure why I decided to do this, but this morning I did something a little different. Sometimes you just need a change of routine and a little peace and serenity in your life.  I found mine this morning when, instead of going to church, I took Baylee and my camera to San Pedro Springs Park. 



I don't know what it is about this place that attracts me back to it.  I came here several times making pictures for the post as it took me a while to walk around to each of the areas; after all, it is 46 acres in size.  Maybe it is the fact that it is surrounded by the busy city.  Or it could be that all that history that has taken place here is sending me vibes!  At any rate I love to come here, even now when the fence is in place for the swimming season. 

This morning there was almost no one in the park and Baylee and I felt like it was our own private place.  I even dropped her leash, but she wanted to stay right with me.  She is not much of a walker, so we stopped frequently and walked slowly, enjoying the morning.

I had not noticed this charming water fountain before.  There was no date, but it was made in Cincinnati, Ohio.  Can't you just see a gentleman wearing a hat and a pinstriped suit holding the button for a lady carrying a dainty little parasol to get a drink?

We walked around the pool and then came to sit on the rock wall that overlooks it. This was the perfect place for a photo session with Baylee.  She was more than willing to pose as she was perfectly happy to sit and enjoy her outing without having to walk.

What was Baylee staring at?  A big black dog!  People were beginning to walk through the park, but even so there was just peace here.  I had to think that this was what the earth was like when God created it, before people came along to mess everything up!

A group of people approached the little gazebo, one of the ladies was wearing a white ankle length dress but the others were casually dressed. I suspected there was a little early morning wedding taking place.  When I heard applause, I knew that probably the groom had kissed his bride!

My different Sunday morning was perfect; sometimes it is good to do something different.  Time to be out of doors, time to be with Baylee, time to enjoy the beauty of a summer morning.  So peaceful, I knew that God was with me.